Tribute Wall
Saturday
13
November
Celebration of Life
12:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Saturday, November 13, 2021
Payne Funeral Home
178 Main Street
Odessa, Ontario, Canada
613-386-7373
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Edward Woolley posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 16, 2021
My sincere condolences. Major Rutherford was our mentor for the RMCC International Model NATO team, and he was one of my favourite professors. He sincerely cared about his students, and took the time to mentor and encourage us. He was a model educator and officer. Rest in peace, Sir.
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Christopher Tracey uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, November 14, 2021
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I am sorry to hear that Ian has passed away. Though I have not seen him since we left to different high schools, we were friends all through public school and he was a kind fellow. Best wishes to all and enjoy this photo of our grade three class in Toronto. Find Ian in the second row. Christopher Tracey
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Louise Thiessen donated to Wounded Warriors Canada
Saturday, November 13, 2021
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences to you and your family.
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David Emelifeonwu posted a condolence
Saturday, November 13, 2021
David Emelifeonwu,
I had the privilege of teaching with Ian for several years, a superb teacher I must add. He was always collegial and honourable. This loss is all too sudden! My condolences to his loving spouse, Pam and the rest of his family. May God's love sustain all of you during this challenging moment.
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David Emelifeonwu donated to Addiction and Mental Health Services - KFLA
Saturday, November 13, 2021
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David Last posted a condolence
Saturday, November 13, 2021
I taught with Ian for several years at RMC. I will remember him for his impeccable preparation, detailed slides and care for the students. He had a dry sense of humour, often evident in his witty and memorable illustrations for key concepts. The crisp blue uniform, polished shoes, and neatly trimmed moustache were old-school RCAF and a mark of his pride in service. In a kinder era, he might have spent many more years teaching. More than a decade of RMC graduates took his special understanding of Canadian politics with them into the world beyond RMC’s limestone.
Ian will be missed. My deepest condolences to Pam, Gail, and Kevin.
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Maureen Bartram posted a condolence
Friday, November 12, 2021
Dear Pam, I am so saddened to hear of Ian’s death, and cannot fathom the weight of what all of you are going through. I remember Ian as a dedicated professor to students, and as a member of our team; kind-hearted, thoughtful, and always ready to lend support. My heartful condolences to you, Gail and Kevin, and all the family.
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Mike and Suzanne Rutherford donated to Addiction and Mental Health Services - KFLA
Wednesday, November 10, 2021
We have been so shocked and saddened with this news. It is far too early to lose your beloved husband, father, family member and friend. We haven’t seen Ian in many years, but we do remember how bright he was and how he was so passionate about the military at such a young age. He knew what he wanted and stayed focused on his dreams. He accomplished so much. I hope some day the wonderful memories of his strong character and a life full of family and career accomplishments will lessen your pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this deeply sad time.
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Evan Yates posted a condolence
Monday, November 8, 2021
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to Pam and family.
I was shocked to hear this news today.
I did not know Ian really well but knew him enough from him being my nebior that I can say he was a great man.
Ian you have left us to soon but I know you are in a better place know.
May you rest in peace.
Evan Yates
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Clara Paquin posted a condolence
Monday, November 8, 2021
Dear Pam, while away from Kingston I learned with shock and great sadness of Ian's passing. I got to know Ian through our participation in the organizing committee of the Saint Andrew's Society of Kingston. My memory of Ian seconds those expressed by friends writing here before me: he was dedicated, kind, polite, knowledgeable and highly intellectual. I enjoyed volunteering with him. I am deeply saddened by Ian's early departure and your loss. I wish you and your family peace and with time, acceptance. My thoughts are with you.
Clara Paquin
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Sean M. Maloney, PhD posted a condolence
Sunday, November 7, 2021
Ian was a man of wit and candor, two of his many fine qualities that I appreciated both as his professor and as a colleague. The consummate professional, I always knew I could get the straight goods from him despite what BS was being spun by the bureaucracy. The RCAF motto, "Per Ardua Ad Astra" is a fitting epitaph for Ian's life in service to this country and not merely the RCAF motto. I mourn his death.
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Claire LeSage posted a condolence
Thursday, November 4, 2021
Ian was an incredibly kind and intelligent person. When working with Ian during the 2019 federal election, I found him to be professional, kind and incredibly knowledgeable. I also know that he was so looking forward to time with his wife after the election. He was a hard worker, and I appreciated his wit, and his kindness. Kindest thoughts to the family.
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Liz Whelpdale posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 3, 2021
Dear Pam, we’re very sorry for your loss of Ian. We have gotten to know you through our shared love of music and hope that playing together will help in these difficult times. You are in our hearts.
The Monday strings group - Doug, Stan, Marilyn, Robyn and Liz
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Alan Whitehorn posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 3, 2021
Ian was a former graduate student in one of my RMC courses and later a valued Departmental member. He was always thoughtful and positive with his colleagues. We both enjoyed discussions on international relations and teaching. He reflected a gentlemanly grace and kindness that was much appreciated by all. It was too soon to say goodbye. My condolences to Pam and the Rutherford family.
Professor Alan Whitehorn
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Derek Joyce posted a condolence
Monday, November 1, 2021
Kathy and I are so sorry to hear of Ian’s passing. Ian was on my first operational crew as the TACNAV and we travelled far and wide together in those early years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Derek Joyce
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Kingston Community Strings posted a condolence
Monday, November 1, 2021
Dear Pam,
We would like to reach out to you on behalf of all Kingston Community Strings members concerning the recent loss of your husband Ian. Our thoughts and feelings of sympathy are sent to you, your family, and your loved ones at this difficult and challenging time.
Over the years, Ian shared your love of music and was very proud of your progress and achievements in playing the violin. He shared the joy and happiness you found in your music.
Pam, we look forward to seeing you back in KCS in the future whenever you wish to return. Until then, please be safe and take care.
Sincerely,
Doug Handforth, Concertmaster KCS
Ted Ashbury, Manager KCS
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Marianna Ferrant posted a condolence
Friday, October 29, 2021
Dear Gail and family, my heart goes out to all of you during this extremely difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lots of love, Marianna
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Luc Boucher posted a condolence
Thursday, October 28, 2021
It is with sadness that I’ve learned of Ian’s passing. My sincere condolences to the Rutherford family. My first memories of flying at 405 Sqn have Ian at the forefront, where he never passed an opportunity to share his insightful ways of tracking submarines on the CP140 Aurora! A dedicated RCAF Officer, a true operator, you influenced and guided so many! RIP old friend…DUCIMUS!
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Pierre Lavigne posted a condolence
Thursday, October 28, 2021
I remember Ian for his sharp intellect, his great skills as a TacNav and as an instructor, his strong leadership, his wry sense of humour and his friendship.
I cannot fathom what all of you, Pam, Gail and Kevin and Ian's family are going through. I can only say I am sorry for your loss and the great pain it brings. I knew your husband, your father, your brother as a great and lovable man. I wish I had got to spend more time with him and getting to know him. I hold on to the great memories I have of him and will miss him. He is truly gone too soon. He was my friend and fellow aviator - Ad astra Ian
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Pat Thauberger posted a condolence
Thursday, October 28, 2021
I had the pleasure to work with and for Ian as instructors at 404 Sqn early in my career- he taught me much of what it takes to be a leader at a formative part of my career- accountability and competence, with no small measure of wit. To this day I've met no one who can carry off the moustache and skinny leather jacket combo like Ian! Pam and family, sincere condolences from Kathy and I.
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Derek Burnett posted a condolence
Thursday, October 28, 2021
Ian was a fellow aviator and instructor at 404 MP&T Squadron. Fond memories of a soul set free much too soon. Sincere condolences.
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Yves Labelle posted a condolence
Thursday, October 28, 2021
Condolences to the family. I served at 404 Sqn with Ian. Sad news
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Dave Cooper posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
Such sad news, my thoughts and prayers are with Ian’s family. I was assigned to Ian’s crew after receiving my NavWings while waiting for my MOAT course. Ian was a great role model for me and I would like to think I was as good a Tacnav as he was. I great man taken too soon.
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Douglas Baird posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
So sad to hear of Ian’s passing, I was a fellow TacNav instructor with him and shared many laughs over the years. I will remember Ian for his wry sense of humor and quick wit. He was a great person , great friend and outstanding mentor to all of those he taught. Rest In Peace old friend, you will be fondly missed.
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Marc Deblois posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
What a shock this came for Sylvie and I. Truly speechless. Most definitely gone too soon. Sincerest condolences to Pam end the kids. Rest in peace, Ian my friend!
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Judy Janzen donated to Addiction and Mental Health Services - KFLA
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
Dear Pam,
I worked with Ian in both the provincial and federal elections. I am so very sorry to know the struggle your family has been through in the last months. The Ian I remember was quick witted, with amazing attention to detail. He was a pleasure to speak with and in particular during the provincial election was a great support to me in the office. I only have positive memories of him in the work place.
My thoughts are with you as you move through this difficult time.
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Mike Deutsch posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
I recall fondly flying with Ian on 405 Sqn. Very busy days for all of us as the cold war drew to a close.
For the family, pls accept the condolences of Sheri and I.
Mike and Sheri Deutsch
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Reid McBride posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
An excellent TACNAV on the Aurora, he was a strong leader and sound tactician during the closing days of the cold war. During down periods between missions on deployment and in the back bar of the Mess, he would contribute to many thought provoking conversations over "a few debrief pops", where we solved the worlds problems. He has left us far too soon.
Reid McBride
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Bill Ricketts posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
So very sorry to hear of Ian's passing. I will focus on the great memories of being on Aurora's together in 405 Squadron at Greenwood. My sincere condolences to his family, rest in peace, Ian...Bill Ricketts
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Shelby Flood posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
Dearest Pam,Gail and Kevin,
My heart is aching for you and I wish that I was able to travel and be with you. I have many vivid memories of Ian because Dad and I visited you many times over the years, and the time always flew by so quickly. However, the most vivid memory that has stayed with me is of Ian attending Dad’s retirement party. Ian happened to be at the Winnipeg Air Force base just then, and was able to be with us. He was absolutely the life and soul of the party at our table. His witty remarks kept us laughing all evening. That is the memory I choose to keep at this sad time.
My love and deepest sympathy to you all,
Mom ( Grandma )
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Adam Smith uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
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In 2019, Auntie Pam and Uncle Ian had me come down to Kingston to stay with them over the Easter weekend when I was doing military training in Ottawa for a few months. Uncle Ian took me out on the 1000 Islands cruise and he just nerded out on the military history of the region in the best possible way. I doubt I retained much of what was said but it was amazing getting to hear someone so enthusiastically share their thoughts and ideas and all the cool stuff they had learned on a topic they were clearly so passionate about.
Auntie Pam, Gail, and Kevin, we are so sorry for your loss. Please reach out if there is anything at all we can do for you in this terrible time.
Love Adam, Kiran and Sam
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Shelby Flood posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
Having been with Ian for primarily short visits during the course of his marriage to my sister, Pam, my best memories of Ian centre most often around his wonderfully intelligent and wry sense of humour — so quick and often delivered in a deadpan style which made what he said all the funnier.
Pam, Gail and Kevin and all of Ian’s family — our whole family feels such sorrow for your loss, a loss we all share.
Shelby Flood
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Louise Barton posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
That matter of fact manner demeanor that Ian carried off so well, will be missed. He was a delight to converse with. Being so well read there was never a shortage of topics and opinions, some shared, some debated but always interesting. I hold fond memories of the pleasure my late husband, Rob, took sharing time with Ian. Their military backgrounds gave them a bond which I could only appreciate from a distance. I consider myself fortunate to have been able to spend a few days with Ian and Pam right before COVID distanced us all. My thoughts and prayers are with Pam, Gail and Kevin during this very difficult time. Losing a loved one so young is so difficult - I know this only too well. My thoughts are also with our mom, Barbara and brother, Dave and the entire extended family. Step or blood, we are all family. Rest in peace, Ian. Always remembered. Louise Barton
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Payne Funeral Home posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
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Our deepest sympathy to Ian's family. May all the special memories shared by others, bring you comfort.
Jason & Collette Smith and family - Payne Funeral Home, Odessa
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Louise Barton donated to Addiction and Mental Health Services - KFLA
Tuesday, October 26, 2021
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The family of Ian Peter Rutherford uploaded a photo
Monday, October 25, 2021
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